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October 10, 2022

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Coming Out: A Guide for Parents of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, and Gender Expansive (LGBTQ+) Youth

Coming Out: A Guide for Parents of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, and Gender Expansive (LGBTQ+) Youth Parenting is full of surprises. From the day your child is born, parenting takes unexpected twists and turns. Parents’ dreams and expectations for their children evolve as families create their own paths. When parents learn their child is lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, or gender-expansive (LGBTQ+), they may experience a wide variety of emotions. Confusion about their child’s sexual orientation, gender identity, and/or gender expression. Worry about how others will treat their child. Concern because they were taught being LGBTQ+ is wrong or even sinful. So, what to do when your child comes out? Let them know you love them. For many LGBTQ+ youths, telling their parents is an act of bravery – the hardest part of coming out. Knowing parents love and accept them for who they are allows all kids – and LGBTQ+ youth in particular – to feel confident they can negotiate the wider world.   Not surprisingly, research shows that LGBTQ+ adolescents who are supported by their families grow up to be happier and healthier adults. Simple sentiments such as, “I love you. I’m here for you. I’ll always have your back” can mean the world to LGBQT+ youth negotiating a scary and uncertain time. Talk and listen. Be intentional about taking time to talk through issues and listen to your child. You don’t need to be an expert on LGBTQ+ issues. Ask open and curious questions about your child’s interests, friends, and experiences. Often, kids and teens have difficulty opening up, so start small and be persistent. Staying connected makes it easier for your kids to approach you with bigger and more complex issues like sexuality, identity, discrimination, or even harassment and violence. Educate yourself. First, clear up any misconceptions you may have about what it means to be LGBTQ+ and learn about the LGBTQ+ community and the issues faced by LGBTQ+ individuals. Becoming educated helps you become more aware of issues that may arise and empowers you to advocate for your child when needed. Parents can access many organizations and online information resources to learn more about how they can support their LGBTQ+ teen, other family members, and their teen’s friends. And because LGBTQ+ teens are more at risk for bullying or violence, it’s important for parents to watch for behaviors that might indicate their teen experiencing any of these types of issues. If bullying, violence, or depression is suspected, parents should take immediate action, working with school personnel and other adults in the community. Visit our website for information on understanding transgender. Stay connected. Being supportive can be challenging when, as a parent, you may experience stress, surprise, or confusion. And teens, by nature, often do not reach out or disclose information. Resist any urges to pull away from each other during these times – your child is experiencing more difficulty with this than you are. And if either or both of you are struggling, reach out for help. Find a counselor, doctor, family member, or community organization to help support everyone through any challenges that may arise. Be proactive about relationships and social media. Positive environments are important to help all youth thrive and develop healthy relationships. However, LGBTQ+ youth face some unique challenges. Some LGBTQ+ youth rely on social media and apps on their phone to meet others. While these can provide support and validation, the content can be inappropriate. And encourage your teen to develop safe and healthy relationships. While dating can be unnerving for any parent, encouraging your LGBTQ+ child to date in an age-appropriate way builds important life skills and sends the powerful message that LGBTQ+ relationships are normal and healthy. Become an ally. What better way to show your child your support than to become an LGBTQ+ ally? Advocate for a gay-straight alliance (GSA) at your child’s school, which have been shown to make schools safer and boost academic performance among LGBTQ+ students. Push for more inclusive sex education. And if issues arise, speak up again and again to the teacher, administrators, or employers, until the concern is resolved. You can also display a supportive image such as a rainbow or transgender flag or sticker. LGBTQ+ youth are quick to pick up on cues they see in their environment, and such displays can make a difference in how they perceive their surroundings. Relevant Links: https://www.cdc.gov/lgbthealth/youth-resources.htm/ https://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/programs/safe-supportive/index https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/articles-and-answers/ask-the-expert/tips-for-parents-lgbtq-youth https://pflag.org/resource/our-children https://pflag.org/find-a-chapter https://arist.app/orgs/beech-acres/courses/dbad0861-7c42-482a-a0e7-0e48513bd125

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Beech Acres

Stories From 6881 Beechmont Avenue

In 1948, the German General Protestant Orphan Home purchased a 60-acre farm on the boundary of Mt. Washington and Anderson Township, a beautiful rural setting amid stately beech trees, where the children had been accustomed to camp for a few weeks each summer. Board Chair Everett Townsley donated one-third of the purchase price for the new location, which came to be called Beech Acres. There were six cottages housing 10 to 12 children each and a handsome administration building arranged around a grassy circular lawn. After a century on Burnet Avenue, in 1949 the Home moved to Anderson Township and evolved into the Beech Acres Parenting Center of today. But our driving force has remained the same from the start – to help children grow into capable, contributing, and caring adults. We are excited about the move to a new centrally located headquarters site, located in Cincinnati and perfect for fulfilling today’s mission and meeting the needs of our community now and in the future. Please join us in celebrating and cherishing the impact made at 6881 Beechmont Avenue over the past 73 years. We’ve had several people reach out with stories, memories, and recollections of our Anderson Township campus. We will be collecting and sharing those stories here. “My first job when I graduated from Miami University in 1978 was working in the PR & Development Office as the Feast Assistant. My job was to assist with duties related to the Annual Feast. I never realized how much work went into this one-day event until I worked there. After the Feast in 1978, I stayed on and took on the newly created position of PR & Development Assistant. I was in that position until June 1982. I enjoyed those four years working with all the wonderful people on such a beautiful campus.” – Sue Roeding Lanter “One of my favorite Beechmont memories was during my first year here at the Beech.  I was teaching foster parent pre-service training one fall evening and noticed that all of the training participants facing the window were quite distracted.  I gave the class a break and learned that the distraction was two bucks challenging one another at the flagpole in the center of the circle.  It was as if the deer planned to meet at the flagpole and settle a dispute. The whole class took a break to watch for a few minutes.  This memory stayed with me as one of the things I appreciate the most about 6881 Beechmont- appreciating the beauty and the ability to share the space with the wildlife that call the surrounding trees home.” – Jessica Thompson, LISW-S “I am the daughter of two residents of General Protestant Orphan Home (Edna Liebert, 1936-1946) and Jack Whitt (1938-1946). My mother was one of 7 children (per GPOH, the largest family to ever reside at “The Home”), and my father was one of 3 boys, so that’s my parents and 8 aunts and uncles who shared their stories with their wide-eyed daughter/niece! They all had a father, but their mothers had died, which necessitated their entrance into “The Home.” I grew up listening to stories of “The Home”. They were a big family who knew each other well! My memories include remarkable stories: – my Dad always watching out for his youngest brother, who was 6 months old when they entered “The Home.”– my Mom and her sisters learning about “female hygiene” from the matrons.– my Dad and my Uncle playing duets (Dad was on trombone, my Uncle played trumpet) at special events, and especially playing Taps at funerals (Uncle Nelson would play the melody, Dad would play the echo).– my Dad telling the story of how he proposed to my Mom while sitting on a stairway at “The Home.” Dad always said that “The Home” was the best thing that could have happened to him, given that his mom had died and they were in The Great Depression. He so appreciated the structure and support he received as he grew up. I grew up attending “The Feast” every year. While Mom & Dad would spend time with many of the other “orphans,” we kids were allowed to ride rides and bet at the various booths. We always came home with baskets of food that many of us would win. I could go on. My childhood memories are flooded with stories. I just hope I have been able to share a bit of what the history of Beech Acres/GPOH has meant to me. I guess coming full circle is that, although my parents are now gone, they certainly must be so proud of the fact that their granddaughter, my daughter, is now on the Board of Beech Acres. I look forward to the lovely tribute coming up as you move on to a new location.” – Denice Whitt Yosafat “My husband, BJ and I started our Foster Care journey right here on the Beechmont campus in 2016. On June 7th, 2016 we finished all requirements to become licensed and took our photo in front of the Kilgore building. We were filled with desire to make a difference in the lives of children and their families, and a hope to grow our family. Over the next few years, we opened our hearts and home to many children. We are now blessed with 5 children! Fast forward to this year… I stood in the green space in front of the Admin building with many of you, admiring my beautiful daughters Mariah and Aubree for their courage. Our daughter’s chose to share their foster care and adoption story to bring light to the need for foster families in our community. By doing so, they raised $5000 for our Foster Care and Adoption program through their “Flip for Foster care” fundraiser! My favorite part of the story, is that they delivered the check on June 7th, 2022 exactly 6 years from the date we finished our Foster Care classes. For their bravery, I joined my talented

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