By: Brooke Rouse, BA and Marketing Manager

For Grace Franklin, becoming a foster parent was not a single decision, but the result of a meaningful journey she shared with her husband, Reed. Exposure to different ways of life through mission trips abroad opened her eyes to the realities many children face. That experience sparked a deeper interest in helping others, leading her to pursue a degree in social work. Now working in child welfare as a therapist for children in foster care, Grace felt a calling to do more. As she put it, “If not me, then who?” 

Together, Grace and Reed decided to take that next step into foster parenting. They wanted to make a direct, meaningful impact on children who need support and stability. When choosing an agency, they consistently heard positive feedback about Beech Acres. After reaching out to several organizations, Beech Acres stood out for being responsive, communicative, and transparent, making the decision clear. 

A First Placement to Remember 

Their first placement was a newborn. As brand-new foster parents, the experience felt surreal. Grace remembers holding the baby and feeling both joy and disbelief, knowing they would eventually have to let him go. The child stayed with them for four months before being reunified with kinship. 

The experience came with adjustments, like learning new sleep schedules, but it was also deeply rewarding. Seeing the child return to a family where he would be loved and supported felt like a meaningful and successful outcome. 

Still, reunification was emotional. Grace recalls crying for a long time after he left. Even so, she found peace in knowing that she and Reed fulfilled their role, giving him the best possible start. 

Ongoing Support from Beech Acres 

Throughout their journey, support from Beech Acres made a significant difference. Their worker, Gretchen, became a trusted source of encouragement and understanding, a safe space where Grace and Reed could process challenges with honesty and even humor. 

In addition, they utilized many of the agency’s resources, including foster care appreciation events, family activities at the Cincinnati Zoo and Nature Center. 

Growth Through Challenges 

Over time, Grace and Reed welcomed other placements, including a sibling set, ages six and seven, who stayed with their family for a year and a half. . Over time, through consistent care and support, the children made significant progress. 

The experience came with challenges, including behavioral struggles and navigating relationships with their biological mother. However, there were also meaningful milestones. From learning their ABCs to participating in school and therapy, the children showed steady growth. Grace and Reed ensured they had access to the services they needed, including therapy, psychiatry, and case management. 

Lessons Learned 

Through fostering, Grace learned she was stronger than she realized, and she and Reed experienced that growth together as a family. Managing appointments, responsibilities, and emotions can feel overwhelming, but they worked through it as a team. In the end, they supported the children all the way through their transition home. 

Building Trust with Children 

Grace and Reed believe that trust is built through time and consistency. Many children entering foster care have experienced instability, so predictable care is essential. Showing up for school events, maintaining clear expectations, and creating a structured environment helps children feel safe. 

They also prioritize celebrating each child, holidays, birthdays, and everyday achievements. By lifting their strengths and including them fully in family life, they help children feel valued and connected. 

Advice for Those Considering Foster Care 

For those who are unsure about fostering, Grace and Reed recommend starting small. They began as respite providers, which allowed them to gain experience before committing to full-time placements. Attending foster care events and getting involved in the community can also help build confidence. 

They emphasize that fostering requires a strong support system. Having family and friends who are committed and involved makes a significant difference, as foster care can be sudden and demanding. 

Meaningful Moments 

Several moments stand out from their journey. Watching children learn to ride bikes or gain confidence in playground equipment showed just how far they had come. 

One particularly powerful memory involved a young boy who had been struggling with anger. After a difficult day, he broke down crying in Grace’s arms. They cried together, and from that moment on, he began to trust her, and their home. He grew into a sensitive, connected child who felt safe and supported. 

A Continuing Need 

The Franklin family’s experience highlights just how critical foster parents are. The need is greater than ever, and the impact of providing a safe, loving home can last a lifetime.