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Screen Time

Apple And Google Address Concerns Over Screen Time

Smartphones Are Everywhere Screen time, social media, and technology addiction are becoming an increasing concern for parents, physicians, and mental health experts. Just look around you. Whether you’re at work, out in public, and even at your dinner table, almost everyone is probably looking at a screen. While technology has made important strides in connecting the world, increased access to the world’s collected knowledge, and made our lives more convenient, the ever-present role these devices have had in our lives over the last decade is giving some pause. Perhaps in response to these growing concerns from medical professionals and parents, both Apple and Google have recently announced plans to adopt screen time controls into the latest versions of their mobile operating systems. Considering over 2 billion people use smartphones globally, it may be a good time to start. Digital Wellbeing In May Google announced Android P, the latest version of Android, its popular mobile operating system. In their marketing for Android P Google says “Technology should help you with your life, not distract you from it.” Under the banner of “digital wellbeing”, Android P will include a dashboard for users that will show them how much time they spend on their device. This dashboard will include information about how much time spent using various apps, how often they unlock their phones, and how many notifications they receive during the day. Users will be able to set time limits on their app usage, have more granular control over their Do Not Disturb settings, as well as the ability to automatically dim their screen at the end of the day. These new features will join Family Link, an app Google introduced last year to give parents control over their kids’ devices. Screen Time This week Apple made their own upgrade plans for iOS public with the announcement of iOS 12. Apple’s marketing says “Apps help us do so many extraordinary things that we can sometimes lose track of how much we use them.” Their answer is Screen Time, a feature built into the upcoming version of iOS. Screen Time brings parental controls to your iPhone without the need for a separate device or app. A dashboard provides a breakdown of previous day and previous week app usage. It will also allow parents to monitor how their kids are using their devices, provide time ‘allowances’, and the ability to limit access to certain apps and content. Kids will receive gentle reminders via “time checks” to help them monitor their usage. Take Time For Togetherness As the technology revolution and the proliferation of the smartphone continues we are increasingly living in a digital world. Children born during this time will not know a world without the internet or tiny black screens everywhere. While it is important for companies like Apple and Google to introduce tools that can help us better understand your family’s usage of these devices there are simple steps you can take to be more intentional about screen time. Partner with your kids to establish clear, responsible rules about screen time. Take time to understand your children’s interests so you can be more aware and involved in what they are doing online. Model appropriate and acceptable use by putting your phone down when you are having a conversation and be present and fully engaged in the moment. Take some time for togetherness.  

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Beech Acres, Cyberbullying, Online Safety, Parenting Tips, Parents, Screen Time, Social Media

Six Tips For Online Bliss

Here are six quick tips to help you and your children get on the same page about screen time. Establish Some Simple Ground Rules Start by setting up some simple rules for everyone to follow. These can include no phones during meal time, no screens a half hour before bedtime, or no computer time until after homework is complete. These basic rules should reflect your family’s values and correspond with any established routines. Utilize your family’s strength of teamwork by working together to establish these rules. Doing so creates a sense of ownership and accountability in the process Choose Quality Over Quantity Rather than set a specific number of hours your children are allowed to be online, try starting a conversation about what they love and why they love it. Not only will this help you get to know your child better, but it can encourage their strengths of curiosity and love of learning by letting them spend time with something they really enjoy. If your child likes Harry Potter, for example, set them up on Pottermore or find some games related to the books. This way they are engaging with something they enjoy rather than spending mindless time scrolling through Netflix or YouTube.  Find Appropriate Time To Spend Online  Be intentional and mindful in setting aside time for your kids to be online. Sit down together as a family to develop, discuss, and create these rules. Discuss with them your daily schedules and routines and make sure screen time isn’t interfering with homework, family time, or extracurriculars. Remind them that screen time right before bed may interrupt their sleep. Reinforce the importance of completing their homework before jumping into a game of Fortnite. This will help them be more responsible about the time they choose to be online and develop their strength of self-regulation. Understand What Is and Is Not Appropriate Discussions about social media and screen time provide a great opportunity to reinforce your family’s values and to build on their strengths of judgment and social intelligence. While the internet is an awesome repository of all of the world’s collected knowledge and cat pics, it is also home to some pretty dark stuff. Empower your child to have fun and discover, but make sure they are equipped with the knowledge to avoid things like cyberbullying online predators, or malicious software. Utilize tools such as Google Safe Search Kids, a custom search engine that uses Google’s SafeSearch features along with additional filtering to block potentially harmful material. Establishing a relationship built on trust will let your child feel safe coming to you with any concerns that they have about inappropriate things they may see or encounter on the internet. Model Appropriate Screen Time Yourself Kids are observers of their world. Remember that. When you are having a conversation with your child make sure you are present and fully engaged. Put your phone on silent and put in on a table or desk. Being intentional about this will encourage your daughter or son to do the same. Make sure you comply with the ground rules you established. No phones at dinner or before bedtime. If your kids (or you) need a little help in this department check out the app Moment. It helps you track how much time you spend on your iPhone or iPad. You can set limits and even connect to and monitor your entire family’s usage. It can be eye-opening to see just how much time is being spent online. And most importantly, make sure to never text while driving!  Have Some Analogue Fun The internet has had a profound impact on our lives. It has made many things easier, more convenient, and even more fun. It allows us to connect and stay connected to friends, family, and the world around us. But, don’t forget the time before the iPhone, before AOL, or before that first PDA or dial-up connection. Approach some non-digital activities with zest. Read paperback books together. Take a walk, hike, or bike ride. Dust off the old board games and have a family game night. Check out our Parenting Resources page for more fun things to do. Value balance in your life between the internet and IRL. 

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Cincinnati Parenting Survey, Natural Strength Parenting™, Parenting Tips, Parents, Screen Time, Social Media

Parenting In The Digital Age

Parenting in the digital age has added a significant layer of complexity to an already challenging job. With everyone’s heads buried in a screen all day, it can seem impossible to spend meaningful moments together as a family. Together, let’s tackle some of the challenges related specifically to parenting in the digital age. Screen time, social media, and cyberbullying are all important topics that today’s parents are faced with. While many parents fall back on the routines and techniques their parents used, these digital scenarios are new and unique to this generation of parents.  In today’s rapidly changing world it can be difficult to stay current with reliable, effective information on parenting. We may not have all of the answers, but we will try to help you navigate these new modern parenting challenges. Bookmark our blog, connect with us on social media, and sign up for our parenting newsletter for fresh perspectives from our parenting experts based on Natural Strength Parenting™, our unique, strengths-based approach to raising kids.  Check out these posts for more resources on parenting in the digital age. Parenting In The Digital Age Help! My Kid Might Be a Cyberbully! Apple and Google Address Concerns Over Screen Time Monitor Your Child’s Online Activity  Six Tips To Online Bliss But Mom! All Of My Friends Are On Snapchat!

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Foster Care Appreciation Dinner May 18, 2018

Last Friday evening Beech Acres Parenting Center hosted our annual Foster Care Appreciation Dinner. The event was held downtown at Nicholson’s Backstage Event Center. Parents were invited to dress up, enjoy a nice dinner, and be recognized for all of the amazing things they do. 120 parents attend the event and enjoyed delicious food, great conversation, and good community.  Community is an important part of all we do at Beech Acres. Our foster care team works hard to make genuine connections with and between our families creating a strong support network for them. The foster care dinner is an opportunity to recognize these families in a tangible way. Childcare is provided by volunteers at Parkside Christian Church parents can enjoy a nice stress-free evening focused on them. Every family receives an incredible gift basket thanks to the generosity of many individuals, organizations, and local businesses.  Thank you to all of the amazing parents who have opened their hearts and homes to these kids. We are grateful for the love, kindness, and leadership you demonstrate every single day.  Special thanks to the following individuals, groups, and organizations for their contribution to our gift baskets.  Lazer Craze Sky Zone urban salon Nikki Zellen Kim Morris Cincinnati Reds Heather Rothfuss McHarper Manor Rebecca Raby Burke Pete Mesrin Aida Stainback Mary Anne Kuhn Longhorn Steakhouse Cincinnati Bearcats Graeter’s Parkside Christian Church Funny Bone Painting with a Twist – West Coopers Hawk Winery Mariemont Moms Group Jane Destefano chick-fil-a Parkside volunteer group Houdini’s Room Escape Coney Island Waggoner’s Candy Scenic River Canoe Excursions Cincinnati Zoo Kali Thompson George Thompson Katie Taylor Anderson Hills Church Epiphany United Methodist Church New Business Development Team

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Beech Acres, Cincinnati Parenting Survey, Mental Health Month, Natural Strength Parenting™

Effective Strategies For Parenting During Therapy

Raising kids is extremely fulfilling. Parents told us so in a recent survey. It can also be very challenging (they told us that too!) Add in the complexities of a mental health diagnosis and many parents wonder how to deal with the “day to day” parenting challenges while their son or daughter is in therapy.  The first thing to remember is a mental health diagnosis is just like a physical diagnosis. Your kid is still your kid! If your daughter has a sprained ankle you’d take her to a physical therapist but then she still has to exercise and rehab at home to get better. The same rules apply to mental health. Use the tools you receive in therapy to connect with your child.  “You don’t have to change your whole parenting strategy, but there may be some techniques to build their self-worth, increase their self-value and improve their mood,” Beech Acres Parenting Center Therapy Supervisor Rachel Eccles advises. “Every child is an individual. You have to be intentional about using their strengths to create a system that works for the family.” Building on a child’s strengths is a key part of the approach to helping families at Beech Acres Parenting Center. Natural Strength Parenting™, our unique strengths-based approach, allow our therapists to focus on building up children. The focus is not “what’s wrong with the child” it’s “what happened to the child.” “You get farther faster when starting with something that someone is good at,” Rachel said. “You start with what they can do.”  As a modern parenting center, Beech Acres believes that the best way to help kids is through their parents. We encourage parents to be actively involved in their child’s therapy and empower them with the tools to encourage success at home. “We like to find out about our parents. Find out their strengths, discover their stressors, and understand what their life is like,” Rachel said. “We want to meet parents where they are.” “What do I do when…” is a huge concern for most parents. “What do I do when my child is having an outburst?” “What do I do when my child is withdrawing?” “What do I do when my child is angry?” Your mental health providers are here to help you answer those questions.  Knowing your child’s strengths as well as your own helps establish a baseline for your parenting style. “Understanding strengths is important because it builds on the positive,” Rachel said. You can discover your families unique character strengths by completing the VIA Character Strengths Survey. VIA identifies 24 character strengths and classifies them into six categories: Wisdom, Courage, Humanity, Justice, Temperance, and Transcendence.  Once you’ve identified your family’s strengths you can begin to be intentional in your interactions with your child. If your son is struggling with anxiety and has a strong love of learning you can set an intention to read together, go to the library, or complete a fun science activity. If your daughter is coping with depression and has a keen appreciation of beauty and excellence you can intentionally spend some time together outdoors or plan a hike together. These moments together can reinforce techniques from their therapy and amplify positivity in your relationship. Being present in the moment and fully engaged with your child is also important. “From the beginning, we encourage mindfulness,” Rachel said. “Being in the moment with your child and having fun is so important and so helpful.” Parents of younger children are encouraged to take time to play with their child during therapy. Once they see the benefits of being in the moment with their child they are encouraged to incorporate these mindful moments at home. “Just play with your child 5 minutes a day and really appreciate that time together,” Rachel says.  Parenting in a rapidly changing world can be a challenge. While these challenges may seem more pronounced after your child receives a mental health diagnosis, fortunately, there are support mechanisms in place to help you be the best parent you can be. Focusing on your child’s strengths, being intentional with your parenting, and being mindful about the time you spend with them will make a big difference.  You can learn more about Natural Strength Parenting™ and find a link to take the VIA survey on our website.

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Nearly Half Of The Kids In The United States Have Experienced At Least One Trauma In Their Lives

May is National Mental Health Awareness Month. A new report released last week by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) includes some sobering statistics on the mental health of our nation’s youth. The report, Helping Children and Youth Who Have Traumatic Experiences, indicates that nearly half of the kids in the United States, a staggering 46%, have experienced at least one trauma in their lives. Trauma, as defined in the report, includes a variety of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) including: * Abuse and neglect * Exposure to substance use and abuse * Parents or guardians who spent time in prison * Divorce * Witnessing domestic abuse * Victim of or witness to violence in their neighborhood * Death of a parent The effects of these traumas are profound. “It is important to understand the impact trauma has on children,” says Amy Blankenship, a Beech Acres Parenting Center Therapist. “Research indicates that children who have experienced trauma don’t know how to regulate their emotions.” Their brains are rewired as a result of the trauma they experience and it takes time to heal and repair those pathways. Meeting children and parents with empathy is the first step in care. Beech Acres Parenting Center believes that the best way to help kids is through their parents. Our services are based on Natural Strength Parenting™, a unique approach to parenting that encourages parents to be intentional and mindful with their parenting while focusing on their child’s innate strengths. “Research shows that a strengths-based approach really helps heal the brain especially for someone who had been through trauma,” Amy said. “Mindfulness is also very effective in supporting people who have been through trauma.” Using intentional, strength-based, mindful tools helps direct service providers like Amy teach caregivers more positive parenting strategies. Childhood trauma is a serious and widespread public health issue. In addition to utilizing Natural Strength Parenting™ as an antidote to this epidemic, Beech Acres Parenting Center therapists are Trauma Informed and the entire organization is currently working toward becoming a Trauma Informed Care organization. This process includes evaluating our current practices and procedures and ensuring that Trauma Informed Care is consistent across the organization. With nearly half of the children in the United States having experienced one or more traumas in their life chances are you know a child who has. It’s time to start to consider what happened to them, not what’s wrong with them. Awareness is important and more and more people are starting to realize the pervasiveness of this issue. As a parent welcoming your child’s friends into your home, as a coach, or a volunteer in the classroom, this is important to understand. “It’s great to see people in the community embracing mental health awareness especially in early childhood,“ Amy Blankenship commented. “If we all make a small difference we can help families and children make big differences in their lives.” To learn more about Natural Strength Parenting™ click here.

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Jim Mason Receives 2018 Virginia Colson Award for Service to Families and Children

Jim Mason, president & CEO of Beech Acres Parenting Center, is the 2018 recipient of the Virginia Colson Award for Service to Families and Children by the Ohio Association of Child Caring Agencies (OACCA). The award recognizes Ohioans who advocate for quality services for children and their families. Congratulations Jim! Thank you for your tireless advocacy for kids and families!  Read the press release here.

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Beech Acres, Foster Care, foster care month, Foster Parents

May Is National Foster Care Month

May is National Foster Care Month! There may never be a “perfect” time to become a foster care family, but there may be a “right” time. The need for loving foster care homes is at a 20-year high. Every day more kids need a place to be safe, to be loved, to just be. Beech Acres Parenting Center prepares you for welcoming a child into your life with excellent training and matching programs. Our support goes beyond our incredible staff by creating real community among our families. Take a step towards making a difference in the lives of vulnerable children. Learn more here.

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Beech Acres, Cincinnati Parenting Survey, Mental Health Month, Natural Strength Parenting™, Parents

May is Mental Health Awareness Month

May is Mental Health Awareness Month. Every day millions of people live with a mental illness. This including one in five adolescents, 13-18 years-old. Last year we surveyed over 600 parents in the Greater Cincinnati area and discovered that their #1 parenting concern was “understanding kid’s mental health issues”. During the month of May, we have the opportunity to raise awareness of mental health and work toward removing the stigma associated with it. Join the conversation on Facebook and Twitter and be sure to sign up for our quarterly parenting newsletter.  

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Superhero Design Company 2018 Recap

I solemnly swear to only use my powers for good. That I will use my cape to comfort others, protect those I love and remind the world of my strengths. I pledge to be a hero, the best I can every day. With this pledge, thirty kids were recently “transformed” into superheroes thanks to Beech Acres Parenting Center and ArtWorks Cincinnati. The “Super Hero Design Company” pairs kids receiving services from Beech Acres with youth apprentices from ArtWorks. “It was very nice. Perfect for my son’s age and his imagination. A very nice event.” -Leap Academy Parent These youth apprentices serve as design facilitators to help the kids design their capes and learn more about themselves in the process. The design facilitators conduct a fun and exciting interview to help the children identify their own personal strengths, unique abilities, and real world “superpowers”. “They loved the interview process, loved talking about themselves and being involved in something. They also loved telling their story and having the cape to show them as powerful kiddos.” -Foster Care Dad From this, the dynamic duo co-designs a superhero identity for each participating child. This identity is represented by a fun logo that is then emblazoned on a cape. “This is really about leveraging strengths of the children that we work with,” said Jennifer Wikette, Director, Early Childhood Parent Solutions. “She loved the whole process, loved using her imagination, felt special and empowered with the cape being about her.” –Foster Care Mom The event is tremendous fun for every involved, especially the kids who get to learn about their own unique qualities and strengths in a creative environment. They are so excited to share their “powers” with the world. “The Super Hero Cape activity was so perfect for my son. He was so excited and so proud, it just meant a whole lot to him which was nice to see. He wore the cape for days and made sure I sent pictures of him wearing it to his grandparents. He took it with us to go hiking over the weekend so everyone else could see it. Everyone who has seen the cape has been just so thankful my son got to be a part of the event. Thank you so much again for nominating him! “  -Beech Acres Parenting Center Dad Thank you to ArtWorks Cincinnati for bringing these everyday heroes to life! “The individualized attention that these artists gave my children was amazing to see. They were so engaged and caring and were sure to remind my kids every second how important and super they were. It’s great to see an organization that is willing to come together and plays a positive role in these kid’s lives. The smile on my son and daughter’s faces said it all. It was an amazing experience to be a part of. Thank you!” -Beech Acres Parenting Center Mom      

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