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Mindfullness

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Anxiety, Mindfullness

Body Scan Activity

This activity is a great way to do a check in with where you are holding any tension and to help you to minimize the amount of stress that you may be feeling physically. Start with getting comfortable in your chair. Sit up straight, feet on the floor and hands either on your lap or on the table in front of you. If you are doing this for the first time, you may need to read the activity as you go, however, if you are doing this with your child or you’ve done it several times, you may choose to close your eyes. You will be breathing deeply throughout this activity. Start with taking one deep, slow breath through your nose and exhale slowly through your mouth. When you breathe deep, you can feel the breath moving from your stomach; this provides greater oxygen to all parts of you. Breathe again, deeply, slowly in and out. As you focus on your breath, notice your body and mind becoming a little bit more relaxed, quiet, and calm. And as you become more relaxed, what do you notice in your body? Is there a place that feels relaxed? Painful? Tight or uncomfortable? Continue to breathe slowly, deeply. How does your body feel to be seated in your chair? What do you notice? What part of your feet can you sense that is touching the floor? Press them firmly to the ground. Do you notice that in your heel? The ball of your foot? Toes? Move your attention up your legs. Are your leg muscles tense? If they are tense, notice how it feels to just let your leg muscles relax. Bring your attention to your stomach. What do you notice? Hunger pangs? Butterflies? Knots? People oftentimes hold tension here. Continue to breathe deeply from this area of your body to bring relaxation and calm. When you are ready, move up your body to your throat and neck. This is another place that people oftentimes hold tension. Let your shoulders relax, drop your head forward towards your chest. Breathe. Move your head slowly in a circle. What do you notice in your neck? Does your head feel heavy? Pay attention to your face. Is there pressure or tightness anywhere? Move attention to your temples, eye area, mouth and jaw. Relax all of the muscles in your face. Breathe in and out. Notice your arms. The energy is coming from your shoulders and moving slowly down to your fingers as you breathe in and out, relaxing your arms. Notice your hands. How are you holding them? Are your fingers tired? Fists clenched? Notice your hands relaxing. Now I will invite you to pay attention to your whole body. How is it feeling? Are you more relaxed? Do you feel calm? As you notice your body in a more relaxed state you may feel in control, less stressful. Maybe even sleepy. Open your eyes. Great job connecting to your body!

White and blue Snowman Mediation graphic with a photo of a little boy smiling with his eyes closed while he stands in the snow
Mindfullness, Parenting Tips, The Character Effect™

Mindful Meditation: The Snowman

Need a mindful moment this winter break? Try this one! Start by finding a comfortable seat. Place your feet at on the ground, relax your shoulders, and place your hands at on your lap or someplace comfortable. Close your eyes or nd a soft gaze and enjoy using your imagination. Be very still, and imagine that you are a snowman – standing in the middle of a snow-covered yard. All around you is fresh, glistening snow; not a shoe print in sight. The sunshine is warm on your face, yet the air around you is cool. You are a snowman. You have a carrot for your nose, small stones for your eyes, and sticks for your arms. On your head is a colorful hat. A striped scarf is draped around your neck. Being a snowman, you cannot move, focus on your stillness. Be still. Be frozen, throughout your body, still as snow. You are alone, in this yard. It feels good to be alone in the sparkling snow and crisp air. You like the silence. You are quiet, you are still. Take a few moments to feel how peaceful it is on this sunny morning. The rays of the sun are bouncing off of you, making you glisten and shine. Experience the warmth of the sun on your snowy face. Now, gradually feel yourself melting. Beginning from your head, feel the snow melt to water, and drip to the frozen ground. Notice yourself shrinking, getting smaller and smaller, delightfully warm and ready to move again. Melt in the warm sun, until only a small pile of u y snow is left. You feel relaxed, still and no longer a snowman. When you are ready, I invite you to slowly wiggle your fingers and toes. Allow yourself a big stretch, come back to this room, come back to this time and open your eyes. Download this meditation and try it with your family the next time it snows.

Graphic about gratitude with a photo of a mother and father standing with their child in the kitchen
Gratitude, Mindfullness, Parenting Tips, Parents

Gratitude

A child’s gratitude naturally grows from a loving, mindful connection to their parents. When you listen and actively engage with your kids, you are planting the seeds of gratitude. The message is that they matter and that you are grateful for the love and time that you share.

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